01.31.10

Clara: 40 months…

Posted in clara, monthly at 10:23 am by jznewcombfamily

…and one week.  :)

Clara, you have continued to really grow up over the past month.  You are becoming more and more of a little lady each day.  I love hearing you using your manners when you interact with others.  I love catching bits of conversations you have with other people when you don’t know i can hear.  In the past, you have been very talkative and outgoing in our home, but when we are out with other people you would tend to keep quiet.  I have started to see you slowly coming out of your shell in public.  And in the past few weeks I’ve had grown-up friends of ours coming to tell me about a surprising conversation they have had with you; surprising because they didn’t realize how much, and how well you talk.  Of course we already knew!  :)

Proud of your creation

Some of your favorite activities are quiet games at your table in your room.  Like Mr/Mrs. Potato Head, puzzles, Memory card game, coloring/painting/drawing, and reading books.

Every now and then lately you will ask me to take your picture.  Above is one of those times, and you smiled and smiled and posed and posed.  You wanted to hold this flower the whole time too.  I don’t know why or where you learned to pose like a professional, but it was fun for both of us!  Especially since getting you or Ike to smile for a picture is next to impossible on most occasions.  Here are a few more of my faves from our recent “photo shoot.”

Of course, when you decide you want me to take your picture you are usually wearing something dirty and stained, or like above, an undershirt.  Which is a shame, because you have SO many adorable clothes and dresses that you love to wear.  You definitely know what you want to wear.  And when.  You usually want to wear something sleeveless, no matter what time of year it is.  A week or so ago, when it was NEGATIVE degrees outside, you insisted on wearing a sleeveless summer dress to school.  And since you made such a good case for the dress (“this dress needs to go to preschool too, not just my other dresses”) we allowed you to wear it; with tights underneath and a cardigan on top.  But by the time i picked you up from preschool, your tights had been ripped so the teachers let your remove them and throw them away, and you were refusing to wear your cardigan.  So, i felt like the most irresponsible parent alive when i picked you up in your pink summer dress decorated with flamingos and palm trees.  I could tell stories all day about the different ways in which you have embarrassed me with your outfits, but i’ll just give one more account:  yesterday you decided that you wanted Halloween to be here.  Now, please.  I told you it would be a long time until Halloween, but i let you play with your trick-or-treat pumpkin.  You thought it was perfect for carry all your tiny dolls and pets from your doll house.  Well, we had a birthday party to attend just after nap, so your dad got you kids dressed while i loaded the car up so we could leave.  When we got in the car i noticed that you and Ike were both wearing Halloween T-shirts from this past year!  Apparently you aren’t ready to let this whole Halloween thing go just yet!  You like when you can dress to match Ike.  Especially with your pajamas.

Jumping on the bed with Ike

You still love jumping on the bed with Ike, especially with music.  It is a regular bedtime activity around the house.  You and Ike play together a lot now.  Most of the time you get along, but there is a lot of correcting you for telling Ike things like, “Ike, you’re in trouble.  Now go to time-out!”  “Ike-ster, you stop that right now or i’ll spank your booty!”  and my favorite:  “IKE!  What do you think you ARE doing?! You are SOOOOO getting in trouble!”  Truthfully though, you are pretty sweet to Ike and we have to stop him from harassing you most of the time.  He absolutely LOVES to tackle you, which makes you very mad.  And you get upset when he messes up your drawings or the toys you have neatly arranged.  But overall, you guys enjoy each others company.  and i am so thankful for that!

Buddies!!!

Awwww...

You have loved and hated the recent snow…up next is an entire post dedicated to our fun in the snow!

SNEAK PEEK!!!

01.23.10

Isaac: 23 months

Posted in isaac, monthly at 3:08 pm by jznewcombfamily

Holy “I don’t have any babies any more”, Batman!  I cannot believe that in a month you will be 2 years old!  But, let’s not think about that right now…i don’t want to cry.  :)

The past month you have continued to quadruple your language skills by the hour.  You are talking very well now.  I understand a majority of what you say.  Now that you are used to being able to verbally communicate with us so well, you get very frustrated when we don’t actually know what you are saying.  You clench your fists and your teeth, maybe grunt a bit and then hold your pointer finger out to us so we can hold on to it and allow you to lead us to what you want.  It is one of the most adorable things you do.

Some of your favorite things to play with lately include: Clara’s dolls–you especially like to feed them and change their diapers, then push them around in the doll stroller; any and all cars, trucks, trains, etc; your MegaBlocks, you love to build a tower and then call me in to your room to show me how you can kick it down or throw a ball through it–my destructive little baby, aaawwww….; but playing outside with your bike, the wagon, or pretty much anything else is your VERY favorite thing…as long as you’re outside.

This winter we have learned that you L-O-V-E, love snow.  the excitement you display when you see snow on the ground or falling from the sky is unmatched.  In the picture above you were at JuJu & PawPaw’s house when you noticed dust particles twinkling in a ray of sunlight coming through a window.  Only, you thought it was snow!  SNOW! SNOW!  And look at how you held up your arms and danced in the “snow.”  It was so funny and completely adorable.  You are such a happy, handsome little guy.  You are a joy to me and everyone else who gets to know you.

The Newcomb MEN!

Here you are at Christmas time with all the other Newcomb men in your family.  What a handsome bunch!  PawPaw is holding you, which reminds me of how much you love PawPaw, and Grandpa.  When one of your grandfathers comes into a room you are immediately at their side insisting to be involved in whatever they are doing.  I love that you get to see your extended family on a regular basis.  You also love your boy cousins, Bearsy and Sheppy…sometimes without any obvious motivation you will ask about one of them.  Simey too, you are a always excited to find out that you will be seeing any one of these guys.

Ike and Shepherd...happy cousins!

Some of our favorite things you are saying right now:

“yay-es.”  as in, “yes” except you say it with a long “a” sound and nod of the head.

“mmmm…chicken.”  which you apply to all meats as well as tater tots.

“dance! dance! dance!—-MUSIC!”  all while grabbing my phone and trying to put it in the dock to play a song.

“i wanna ride the airplane, mama”–meaning you want to be hoisted in the air on my feet, high above my head…and then you will start saying, “turbulence!”  which is what i say just before i start bouncing you while you are up on my feet.  you and clara both absolutely love it.

seeing as how you say something new and adorable every 2.5 seconds, i cannot possibly mention all of them.  but of all of the adorable things you say, i don’t think any of them will ever be better than when you say, ‘love you’ and ‘mama’, especially together.

love you, handsome boy

love you handsome boy!

01.07.10

Snow Cream

Posted in isaac, life at 9:54 pm by jznewcombfamily

Ike REALLY likes the snow.  He calls it Hhnoh (you know, snow without the ’s’ but a bit of an added ‘h’ in its place).

While Clara was still napping one day, I thought i would show Ike how to make ice cream with snow.  I put some CLEAN snow in a small bowl and set in on the kitchen table and went to the pantry to find the other necessary ingredients, but when i returned to the kitchen ike had eaten the whole bowl with his hands and was holding the bowl out to me and pointing outside saying, “more hnoh! peeeaze!”  He ate four bowls…and we never bothered making ice cream.

If you are getting snow this winter, i hope you are enjoying it as much as we are.  Let it snow, let it snow, let it snow!!!

01.03.10

Clara: 39 months

Posted in Uncategorized at 2:53 pm by jznewcombfamily

Merry Christmas Clara!

You were 39 months on Christmas Eve but i am just now sitting down with all the photos we’ve been taking over the last couple weeks so i can publish your post.  We have been so busy this holiday season.  Let me tell you what Christmas was like for us this year:

We woke up Christmas Eve morning and you and Ike opened one present each from Mom and Dad.

You got a fun “text message” toy and Ike got a cell phone toy.  We knew you guys would be entertained by them in the car since we had a LOT of driving ahead of us.

We loaded up in the car just after breakfast and were on the road by 10am.  We arrived in Mena at JuJu and PawPaw’s house about 1230 and ate lunch and had naps before having to head to HotSprings for Paps’ family Christmas.  All you grandkids get dressed up in adorable outfits from JuJu for this party.

You LOVE your cousins!

your baby had a matching fancy dress this year!

the whole Newcomb family

You had a blast all night running around with your cousins.  you and i rode back to Mena in the car with your cousins, and we sang out loud the whole way back!  you still request “On the Radio!”  over and over in the car and at home…i will play it from the iphone and you always ask for it to play “louder!” and “again!”  You are so much fun to be around.

That night we played Wii at JuJu & PawPaw’s until way too late (you were a star at pitching in baseball), and then we were off to bed.  The whole family slept in one room; you did great, but Ike and me and daddy had a rough night.

The next morning we woke up and opened presents with JuJu & PawPaw and all the cousins.  You got a new baby which of course you love.  you named her “Clara Tai Newcomb Baby” (all your baby’s are named Clara ________ Newcomb Baby, the only variation is the name after Clara and before Newcomb.)  After presents we had a big breakfast and then you kids were all over the place playing with all your new gifts.  It also snowed that night, so we played outside a bit too.  Later that day we drove back to Hot Springs for a party on JuJu’s side of the family.  We got to see MeMaw again, and all the cousins were there too.  On the way back to Hot Springs you asked me in the car, “Who is this birthday party?”  You kept thinking all the presents were because of a birthday party! :)

Christmas morning at JuJu & PawPaw's house

After Christmas dinner at MeMaw’s, we headed to Sims to Namma & Grandpa’s house.  As always you were very excited to see them (and Raskol.)  Aunt Lisa & Uncle Adam were there too, and you talk about them both a LOT lately.  Aunt Lisa gave you an Eeyore stuffed animal that you have been keeping close at hand.  You went to bed pretty early b/c in the morning you had yet another “birthday party!”  The next morning we woke up and you guys opened all your presents, your favorite:  a doll house!!!  i can hardly get you to go to bed at night because you sneak out and play with the dolls after lights out.  it is too much fun watching you talk to your dolls.  I think my favorite part is how you have decided that one of the “daddy” dolls is Uncle Tyler, and you put him up in the attic sitting in a chair with the toy headphones on.  Pretty cute.

A few of my favorite things that you say lately:

“Oh! My! Gosh!”  (many times while your hand are on your hips)

“What is this in the world?!”  (meaning, what in the world is this?)

“Perfect.  That is perfect.”  (referring to almost anything, but the funniest things so far was when you pushed the trash can over to a different side of the kitchen and then you stood back and looked at it declaring, “perfect, just perfect.”)

“Ike, you be careful.  I gonna tell Mama.”  or “Ike, you’re in trouble.”

“We need to dance, we need music.  Louder!  Again!  On the Radio–Oh!–Oh!”

I really could list a hundred more because you have the best way of saying things.  You also really like to point out all the shapes and colors of things.  You like to say when things match or when things aren’t the same.

For Christmas we got you and Ike each a beginner Bible story book that you frequently request i read to you.  You like to read it to your babies too.  Yesterday i overheard you reading it in your room at nap time, “God was very, very angry at the animals.  And He wasn’t wearing a hat.”  I don’t know quite where that came from since we haven’t read any angry God stories, or any mention of God without (or with) a hat, but it is always interesting to overhear your thoughts as you are talking yourself to sleep.

I am so proud of you, you are growing into a smart, funny, loving and (most of the time) obedient little lady.  We constantly work on your manners and obeying the first time you are told what to do.  Thanks for being a teachable and thoughtful daughter, one who is commonly nesting her head into my neck and whispering “I love you, Mom.”

I love you too, daughter.

12.23.09

Happy Holidays!

Posted in christmas card, life at 9:56 pm by jznewcombfamily

12.21.09

Isaac: 22 months

Posted in isaac, monthly at 8:59 pm by jznewcombfamily

CHEESE!!!

First of all, can i just say, I cannot BELIEVE how light your hair is now!  It gets lighter and lighter every time i trim it, which is every month.  You were born with thick, black hair just like your dad, and his hair has always been black.  I just assumed you would always have thick, black hair too.  Well, i guess i was wrong!

You are now snuggled in bed for the night.  You go to bed around 630pm and you sleep until about 7-730am.  You sleep so soundly, so sweetly.  Then you wake up and you play so hard.  You go full speed ahead until you go to sleep.  You typically go to sleep without a fuss.  Thank you for that!

The past month you have increased your vocabulary about 100 fold.  You will repeat anything we ask you to say, so i find it amusing to ask you to say all sorts of things, all day long.  I’ll say, “flux capaciter!”  and you’ll parrot, “fux capatacitatotor-oh!”  You usually add a few syllables to whatever we ask you to say.  I couldn’t imitate it if i tried, but my favorite thing you have repeated so far is “uncle Adam.”  It takes you about 30 seconds to get out the full attempt and the only part i can understand is the last “-’dum.”  Trust me, it’s adorable.  You say a lot of things without encouragement too.  Some of our favorites are, “Daddy, where are you?”  “Merry Christmas everybody!”  “help me”  “change shoes!”  “steamroller! steamroller! steamroller!”  “clara sleep?”  “peek-a-boo!”

you love animals…and chickens and roosters are a few of your favorites.  along with sheep, cows and dogs.  i can’t wait until spring so we can go back to the drive through zoo; you will love it!  you really enjoy your little people barn with all the different animals, and when you wake up from nap i will usually hear you in your room playing with them for a while before you start throwing them at the door to let us know you are ready to come out.  :)

you still like being outside as much as possible.  you REALLY want to be able to ride Clara’s bike, but you can’t quite reach the pedals so you get very mad just sitting on the seat.  You don’t want my help either though, so you get mad if i push you around on the bike.  You will just have to grow a few more inches before you can be happy!

*a couple weeks ago i kept you and Clara home from school and we had a fun “sick day”

*you want to paint all the time.  out of no where you will ask me if you can paint.  it’s too cute.

*you like to help me clean, especially vacuuming.  and wiping down the table after meals.

*you and clara play together really well, just an occasional fight.  usually because one of you has something the other wants.  Sharing.  it’s tough, but get used to it because it never ends.

*one of the funniest things i have noticed you doing recently is “testing” clara’s drink.  i have noticed that you always steal clara’s drink after i have given you each a cup of milk or juice.  you drink a few sips from your cup first.  then i noticed you would grab clara’s cup the first time she set it down and you would take a few sips from hers.  of course if clara noticed, then you guys would end up in a fight over the cup.  but after a few times i noticed that if clara wasn’t around you would still go back to your own cup after you tasted hers.  i soon realized that you were just testing hers out to make sure it wasn’t something better!  you’re so smart!

our handsome boy

one of my favorite times of day is bedtime.  i love sitting in floor; you in my lap, or sometimes Daddy’s.  you pick out a book (or ten) and we read and point at pictures and talk.  you are so sweet and calm at this time.  you drink your milk and lean into my chest, tilting your head so you can see the book we are reading over your cup.  when we put you in bed (or sometimes you climb in yourself), you say, “nye-nye.  love you!”

even superheros need to sleep

(i caught this pic with my phone one day when you fell asleep while i was reading you a story at nap time)

Merry Christmas little man, we love you!

12.20.09

Things i love: my husband (of ten years!)

Posted in Uncategorized at 12:10 am by jznewcombfamily

Yesterday Zach and i celebrated our ten year wedding anniversary.  He planned a sweet surprise day for me, and i never suspected a thing.

I am so thankful to be married to the most admirable man i know.  I thank God for that day over 12 years ago, when on a routine outing as friends searching for a blue icee, zach felt that “spark” when i touched his hair during some random story while we were driving.

I never believed in love at first sight.  I never wanted that for myself.

I love that zach and i progressed from a solid, God-focused friendship into a solid, God-focused dating relationship.  And I am blessed by our solid, God-focused marriage.

Zach, you make me so happy!

on our 10th anniversary with our 1st christmas tree

11.30.09

Our first Christmas tree

Posted in clara, isaac, life at 9:13 pm by jznewcombfamily

This December Zach and i celebrate our 10th wedding anniversary, and on Saturday we put up our very first Christmas tree!  We also started what we hope will be a new family tradition along with the Newcomb Farm.

We drove out to the Newcomb Farm in West Fork and loaded the kids and ourselves into the back of a trailer filled with dirt.  This is how we traveled “down the road a bit” until we came to Across the Creek Farm’s unofficial tree farm.

"Across the Creek Farm"--here we are, crossing the creek

Ike gets some help from PaPaw

Ike yells at the chickens--cock-a-doodle-doo!

Zach points out the winning tree

dragging home his "kill"

clara is not a fan of getting wet and dirty

securing the tree for transport

Trimming the tree....

...and basking in her gentle glow!

The kids are loving the tree.  Although, Clara keeps saying she wants the “green, pink, purple, blue and red lights” instead of white.  Ike wants to pull the “balls” (ornaments) off the tree and throw them.  I’m glad i went with the shatterproof ornaments.  Ike likes to point at the tree and say “oooh, pretty!”  I love the smell of the fresh cedar.  I love our first tree; Zach picked a real beaut!

Thanks to The Newcomb Farm and Across the Creek Farm for their generosity.

11.25.09

Isaac: 21 months

Posted in isaac, monthly at 1:11 am by jznewcombfamily

Ike, you are beginning to confirm my suspicions that you are going to keep us in the doctor’s office.  (although Clara isn’t helping either–see post below).  Nine days ago you fell at day care and broke your finger.  The first day it was so terribly swollen and bruised that i wanted to wait and see how it looked after the swelling went down…i wasn’t really convinced it was broken at the time.  By day five after you hurt it, it was still very swollen and very black & blue so i decided we’d better get some xrays.  And you broke your “pointer” finger along the base, slightly into the growth plate.  We got into the orthopedic doc the next morning and you started wearing your splint that day.  You have been so tough through it all.  You protect the finger with much caution, but you still play hard as always.  You have to wear the splint for two weeks until it is healed and then we have to get xrays to make sure it healed properly.  You seem to like the splint now that you are used to it.  You hold your hand out for me so i can wrap it securely after taking it off for baths.  Sometimes you hold up your hand and say “ouch-ers!”

 

right after ortho appointment--looking so tough!

i don't know about this...

...let's get rid of this thing.

 

Besides your broken finger, you scared your dad and i half to death at the playground one day when you decided you would jump from the platform of the playset which was about 20 feet off the ground.  You called out to us and when we looked up you lifted on leg and acted like you were about to jump.  You put your foot back down and started working to reposition yourself to jump.  I had already taken off up the stairs and toward you so that by the time you went to really jump i grabbed you as you raised your leg the second time.  daddy was also positioned below you in hopes that he would catch you in case you jumped before i got to you.  through the whole thing we were yelling to you, “don’t jump ike.”  you laughed and wiggled around in my arms as i carried you back down to the ground.  you can be such a little stinker!

 

from that day on the playground

 

we had halloween this past month.  you were Max from Where the Wild Things Are, we have always loved reading that book together.  you made the perfect Mischievous Max:

you caught on right away to door-to-door trick or treating, but some of the effects scared you at times.  you were pretty cautious all night.  you threw caution to the wind when it came time to eat your candy though!

You soooooo badly want to ride this bike that belongs to one of our neighbors.  i will sit you on it when you beg, and then you get upset because you can’t pedal it, but you don’t want me to push you either.  our neighbor is getting a new bike for christmas and passing this one on to you.  i bet by the time spring arrives you’ll be able to ride.  wonder what you’ll break next? :)   kidding!  (please be careful for your mother’s sake)

*this month you have been naming colors–you even get them right sometimes!–i love how you say yellow

*one of my favorite things you say is when you call out, “bye-bye guys!” whenever we are leaving somewhere

*you continue to be a great sleeper…so easy…i always say you sleep hard so you can play hard

*you like to color, especially with markers; you like stacking blocks and knocking them down

*you have been known to full body tackle people…daddy, clara, me, even poor little baby liam…it’s something we are working on with you

*you are a huge fan of your bedtime routine:  bath, get in pajamas, play steamroller with daddy and clara on our bed, yell “milk! milk! milk! milk!” and run to the kitchen and dance around in excitement while waiting for daddy to get your milk, sit in my lap and read a few books, mommy+daddy+clara pray for you and then lights out, door closed, nighty-night!

*you still love being outside regardless of what the weather is like or what you will be doing

*you like singing songs and dancing–you and clara do this together a lot…adorable & hilarious

OK, so that’s been 2 broken bones in less than 2 years…whatcha say we take a few years off?

love you my little stinker :)

 

Clara: 38 months

Posted in clara, monthly at 12:22 am by jznewcombfamily

Today you are 38 months old.  That sounds like such a long time, but really it is just past 3 years.  And even though i can remember life before you were here, it feels like you have always been here.  that probably doesn’t make much sense to you, but one day you will understand.

this past month has been so full of excitement, adventure, even some pain.

just a few days after i posted your 37 month update, on October 29th, you dislocated your elbow at pre-school.  when i picked you up from school i noticed that you weren’t even trying to use your right arm.  AT ALL.  You are right-handed, but when we arrived home and you started eating dinner you tried to use your left hand to eat.  when you became frustrated with that you even asked me to help feed you (asking for help or taking offered help is not something you do regularly as of late).  i tried to examine your arm but you couldn’t really explain where it hurt except that your “arm hurt” and you wouldn’t move it at all from shoulder to fingertips.  i tried and tried to convince you to try to move it just so i would know whether or not you could move it, but you refused.  you were scaring me because you would just start softly sobbing at times and you looked sorta like you were in shock.  very scary for a mommy.  i quickly decided that you needed to be seen by a doctor.  i suspected “nurse maid’s elbow” (elbow dislocation) because that is the most common arm injury at your age, but when you or ike get hurt the nurse in me gets a little unsure of herself.  so we got an appointment with the after hours clinic at your doctor’s office and we were there in mere minutes.  despite your dislocated arm, you fought like a champ against any attempts the doc made at examining you.  he decided nurse-maid’s elbow was the culprit and i had to hold you still while he performed the reduction manuever that put it back in place.  you still kept that arm completely still and protected until the next day while we were getting x-rays to confirm that the joint was indeed back in place.  during the xrays, while you were fighting me and the technician, you started using your arm fully.  i let you spend the rest of the day with me at work.  it was an unusual day at work because it was the day before Halloween so we were having our annual halloween carnival for the day care below my office.  you had a blast and now you beg to come with me to work almost every day.

 

waiting for the xray results--finally feeling better

 

on saturday we celebrated halloween.  you dressed as a “halloween princess.”  when you saw this costume on another little girl who came to the halloween carnival at my work, you leaned toward me and whispered while staring at her: “mom, i wanna be that halloween princess for my costume.”

 

the "halloween princess"

 

 

enjoying the fruits of their labor :)

 

So, Halloween was a blast.  You talked about it for weeks afterward.

You also never stopped talking about the doctor.  After your whole arm incident, you became a little obsessive about doctors.  You would ask all the time if we were going to the doctor.  you would quickly announce, “my arm doesn’t hurt, i don’t need to go to the doctor.”  and you started taking your babies to the “doctor” a lot.  including asking for the “tempature” (thermometer) so you could see if they were sick.  after a few weeks of this i decided to get you a doctor kit so you could have a little more fun and hopefully not be afraid of doctors forever :)   i found an adorable baby alive that sorta looks like you and she was a “make me better” baby doll that came with a stethoscope, thermometer, medicine spoon, bulb syringe, and bandaids.  you immediately loved her and started taking care of her and calling her “doctor baby clara” which you still refer to her as that even today.  you have taken her temperature hundreds of times and decided that she needs medicine and then a bandaid sticker.  i taught you how to use the stethoscope to “listen” to her heart and lungs, explaining to you that you can hear her heart beating with the stethoscope.  the day after you got her, you came home after school and started playing with her.  you picked up the stethoscope and placed it on her chest and told me, “mom, we have to call doctor baby clara’s heart.”

Oh, how i love you my darling girl!

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